10 BBW Dating Sites

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BBWCupid Review

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Welcome to our newest review of BBWCupid! Find out all the latest dating tools, pros and cons, and how the dating site measures up to the best in the BBW world.

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Members: 100,000 US subscribers

Best for: Singles looking for BBW dates, romance or hookups

User base: 65% men, 35% women

Recomended Age: 25+


Personality testing to receive a compatible dating match

Secure dating site with individual photo authentication

Highly active BBW site with 50,000 weekly visits

Immediate match suggestions after a successful registration

Instant messaging available

Lots of features and tools to play around with

Chat room options

Free app available to download on Android and iOS


Quite a lengthy and personal registration process

Limited account visibility when waiting for your photo to be verified

No video call feature available

Live chat restricted to premium accounts

Fees for upgrades are reasonably expensive

Some spam accounts to look out for

Not able to delete a match you don't wish to see

Limited to a straight gender match only

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Signing Up

As a BBW site aimed at long-term relationships, and serious dates, you can expect to take a personality test when you first register for an account. This takes a little longer than some registrations, but it does mean that any match you receive is more likely to be compatible. Your photos are not immediately visible on your account since these must go through a verification process first - make sure you read the photo guidelines to make sure that your account photo is accepted! The test itself doesn't take too long, and the process is quite simple to navigate. Once you have finished the application, you will be able to receive a match straight away and start using the site's tools.

We quite enjoyed the personality test - although not that it is mandatory, and we couldn't just get involved and have fun flirting! You will find that the questions are quite specific and designed to help find you the best possible match. In terms of sign-up information, this is quite familiar with other sites and is the usual information - your email address, name, and gender. You are then required to add more detail, such as what you are looking for in a partner, your personality type, and an account headline. We found this a little challenging - who can think of a headline on the spot! - but got there in the end. The next stage is about another set of questions, again quite in-depth. Be prepared to answer questions about your appearance, your lifestyle, and your cultural views. We appreciate that this is all to make matchmaking more specific, but it would be nice to have the option to skip questions that you don't wish to answer!

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Members & Profiles

BBWCupid has 50,000 active weekly members

Around 100,000 people are in the states

About 65% of the site's subscribers are men

Your account will show you who is active now

New subscribers will have no account photo while their picture is approved

You must complete a personality test to become a member

BBWCupid singles are quite mixed, although you'll find that the vast majority are BBW women looking for romance, dates, and relationships, or men looking for BBW women. Not all people on the site are plus-sized, but the main focus of these websites is on larger singles and curvy women. The site is aimed at reasonably serious dating and markets itself in long-term relationships. However, we found that the majority of users were looking for online flirting, one-time casual hookups, or a flirty affair rather than genuine relationships. As a male user, you might find that men dominate the site, and you're quite unlikely to receive any direct messages, so BBWCupid works best for single women - as do many websites!

Most users are in the age range of below 34, so perhaps this is why there is a lot of casual dating and hookups rather than the romance. You'll find that the average age of a male user is slightly higher, with a proportion of older guys looking for younger dates. Unfortunately, BBWCupid websites do not offer any user or gender diversity when it comes to sexuality in relationships, so the site is only suited to straight people and no other gender matches. This limits the accessibility of the website somewhat and makes it closed to large sections of society and relationships. It's relatively simple to see who is active and to check out the activities of other singles. This is all visible through the activities tab, and while this is great for looking at what other users are doing, it is best to be aware that other singles can see your movements. When you are receiving or sending views, likes, or messages, these are all visible - making some users feel less confident about browsing and checking out other profiles since they know everything they do is visible!


There are many security features on the BBWCupid websites that make it one of the safer dating sites. However, you should still be cautious, as there are fake people out there. If you receive any abusive or offensive messages, click the 'report abuse' button to report the offensive content to BBWCupid. There are options to change the visibility of the photos you have posted in your profile, and you can find these features in the photo management page within the Edit Profile menu.

BBWCupid does have a fraud prevention team, as well as a Safety Tips page, to help people avoid unsolicited messaging. Unfortunately, due to the size and international nature of BBWCupid, it is one of the larger BBW dating sites and feels prone to fake accounts and profiles. It is best to be cautious about sharing any information over the internet.

The websites recommend that you use a different email address for your dating profile - and in honesty, this made us feel less secure when conducting our BBW Cupid review. Our advice after our review would be to proceed with a degree of caution. It is easy to get caught up in a flirty chat with a beautiful BBW guy or girl, only to realize later they aren't who they appear! You should also be aware of the photo guidelines on BBWCupid dating to ensure that you don't inadvertently break any of the website's rules and block your account! The rules state that your account photo:

Must clearly show your face and gender

Be of you - rather than a logo, scenery or any other image

Must be at least 10MB

Must meet the BBWCupid size requirements

Must be in one of the accepted formats for photos

Must not be offensive

Must not contain any personal information

Real Life Review

I wasn't sure about using a website to find a partner, but decided to join up having had no success meeting ladies in my local area! There aren't too many girls where I live, but I have had lots of fun meeting new people and socializing. I have not had any spam contacts, although some of my messages have been unread, so I guess it is time to work on my pick-up lines for next time!

BBW Cupid Costs and Prices

BBWCupid offers two membership tiers; Gold and Platinum.

Gold BBWCupid Membership:

Period Per month Total
1-month $24.98 $24.98
3-months $16.66 $49.99
1 year $8.33 $99.98

Platinum BBWCupid Membership:

Period Per month Total
1-month $29.98 $29.98
3-months $20.00 $59.99
1 year $10.00 $119.98

Free Services

Creating your dating profile and registering

Receiving a match with singles

Seeing which user has liked your profile

Viewing photos of other members

Using the search system

Adding profiles to your favorites

Liking other members profiles

Fee-Based Services

Lifting of restrictions on messaging other profiles

Message translation with international singles

Highlighting your profile as a VIP

Live instant messenger chat with other members

BBWCupid.com FAQ

Here we share the answers to some of the most frequent review questions we have been asked about dating on BBWCupid!

Is BBWCupid legit?

Yes, this is one of the legit dating sites. The Cupid Media Network owns BBWCupid, as well as more than 30 different online dating sites.

Is BBWCupid a scam?

No, BBWCupid is a real dating site, and a system for singles looking for BBW partners. You might find some fake profiles, but this is part and parcel of online dating, and BBWCupid has put in place features throughout their system to reduce the number of fake accounts.


The platform is a relatively large plus-size dating site, but we were disappointed with the lack of diversity, and while most profiles are from the US, large sections of the community are excluded. The registration process was much longer than we would expect. While this would be acceptable if BBWCupid were a long-term dating site as it is marketed, our reviews found that it is widely used by members looking for casual hookups and flirting. The security settings seem to be reasonably good, but the advice to create a separate email account was unnerving and raises the question of how secure the site is! There are spam accounts to watch out for too, which often happens with a site where a lot of the features are free to use. That said, there are plenty of members on the site, so while our BBWCupid reviews tell us it's not your best bet if you are looking for a genuine long-term relationship, it would be better suited if you're seeking something casual.

Get started with BBWCupid.com today!

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